came back from another wedding this past weekend... a beautiful wedding.. everything was perfect, and very very happy for the newly weds =) i must say... that never can we stress enough, that the most important commandment is to love. and in their wedding ceremony and the banquet dinner, their love is so radiant, that you know they love each other so so much, and with God in the midst of them, that they not only love each other, but truly tries to live out a life of love and joy among all people... so considerate of everyones' feelings even on a day that they can legitimately call theirs. you can reallie truly see them living out their faith... *cuz if we're united, God is among us*

i know that certain moments or certain people can turn the joy of loving into a difficult task, at times, ur evilness and selfishness comes in... and the 'love' you first commit to can possibly turn into a task that you end up being fake. i hate it when i feel this way.. and it hurts even more to see other people like that. i guess when i know i am selfish, at least i can tell myself.. when others are like that to a point that i can see their intentions... there's really nothing to say, except pray.... dont know.. i'd rather not know or not care sometimes.. but watever... anyways, im sure we've came across this bible passage before, haha its like.. in everyone's wedding mass hahaha... an explanation of concrete love.

Love is patient and is kind; love doesn't envy. Love doesn't brag, is not proud,doesn't behave itself inappropriately, doesn't seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn't rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth;bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails. - 1 Corinthians 13:4-8